It would be fair to say that most of our house is fairly tidy most of the time and a sense of order does contribute to my personal sense of wellbeing. However, there were a couple of places in our home that were draining me of energy, weighing me down.
One is the garden shed where we keep equipment and tools – despite numerous attempts at creating order, it was generally difficult to find things, doubling the time required for even the smallest job.
The other is the “store room” where unwanted/infrequently needed items were placed in a random fashion, generally meaning that finding an item (a sleeping bag for example) involved taking most of the other things out first.
So I bought a copy of “Clear your Clutter With Feng Shui” by Karen Kingston and got cracking on the living room and our bedroom as preparation for the ( I have to admit) daunting store room challenge. That was when a principle common in hypnotherapy became really evident to me. It’s called “Control Constant Theory” and highlights the fact that taking the first small step to control one area of your life drives you on to take control in others.
We don’t feel comfortable, for example, being highly organised in one area of our life and chaotic in others – that first small step, whether it’s buying trainers or booking a health-check or getting back in touch with old friends, is the start of the better future we are all looking towards.
My store room is now fully organised and every object in there is easily accessible. I also police any attempts from other members of the family to disturb the system, meaning that any future clear-outs will be speedier and more efficient.
In case you were wondering if the clear-out was really necessary, I have to admit that among the debris I found another copy of “Clear you clutter” which I had bought about six years ago! Right, now on to the shed….